Friday, 19 August 2011

Share my mess no. 3: Of Courtesy

Do you sometimes stick yourself in someone bubbled bubble gum under the seat?
Do you sometimes find people parked their car in front of your house?
Do you sometimes find yourself stepping on some stranger spit? (ewwwwwwww)
Do you sometimes see rubbish being thrown at a beautiful beach?

You are frustrated, angry and sometimes even mad of these things! where this could be solved with just one word! Money!.......waittttttt, just kidding! hahahahha! the WORD is

Courtesy


although sometimes money do work too, when you give some money too them and tell them not to do it again....naaaahhhhhh, that won't work! hahahahah!

Courtesy! is somehow out of the window in society nowadays! or perhaps 'in the window' cause we people nowadays are always outside! hahahahh! I am not implying that people always stayed in house are courteous. You people should go out more! breathe in the fresh air, play and have fun! You know outside.....(i tend to get so easily carries away.).

Ok, C-O-U-R-T-E-S-Y!

I think it would be more effective if I told you they benefits of being courteous right. Lets divide them in gender:


For Guys:
1. You get GIRLS!
2. You get more GIRLS!
3. GIRLS GIRLS GIRLS!


For Girls:
1. You get GUYS!
2. Good GUYS! Hunky GUYS!
3. GUYS GUYS GUYS!


note: Benefits of being courteous may differ from person to person. please do not blame the author if result comes out differently from what you have expected. Please do not sue the author. XDXD




The real benefits of being courtesy, is you be a better human! Those who still wondering how to be a better person, here is your answer smack straight to your face! hahahah! Start being COURTEOUS!! A girl always like a guy who opens door for her, take her chair out when you go for dinner, hand her your jacket when she is cold and etc. That was being gentleman! courtesy might involved a little bit of being gentleman, but it applies not only to your partner, but to everybody in this whole wide world! No matter if he/she is blood related to you, your ok-not ok friends or someone you will never know! It involving you being courteous to... EVERYONE!! And yessss include the nagging lady boss you cursed every now and then. XDXD

Courtesy involve not doing things which you like the other person not to do to you! got the drift?? no?? ok ok. You do not like rubbish being thrown to your house right? Do not damn throw rubbish on the street like it was your own backyard or something! got the drift?? no?? ok ok. You do not like people double park your car right? Don't do it to others! Unless you got a emergency or you have the COURTESY to left a contact for people to call you if they want to move their car... you might need to consider the risk that their phone are out of credit...hahahahhah.

Courtesy involve being polite. Being polite to everyone! Manners is for dealing to people older than you. Courtesy is for EVERYONE!! From baby of 3 months to a person who are 80 years old (age not mention all included, the rite scale should be 0-130 perhaps). Courtesy applies to all! Being polite take you to places you never imagined (good places of cause).

Courtesy is the basic thing being a human. Society is about living together. Unless you bought up the whole city just for yourself. Have fun being alone then! Faced it! We lived together, and courtesy is the most gluey adhesive that will make us live happily together. You would really live happier when everybody is courteous.

Courtesy is not charity. Charity is something you give and higher chances that you would not get back (definition from shiandictionary, 2011). Courtesy is something you definitely get something back, in all types of shape and feelings possibles. Trust me on this.

Courtesy is not respect. Respect is of choice. you choose to respect or not respect a particular or a group of human being/s. Respect can be earned or lost. You can do action to gain respect or lose respect. Courtesy is different. Courtesy is of need. You just need to do it! As a person, as a member of the society.

Courtesy is about, think-of-others-when-you-do-something-when-the-effects-of-your-action-do-not-only-affecting-you. And believe me, a single thing we do nowadays affects peoples in way you could not even imagining! hahahahahahah!

So people, Just be courteous to have courtesy please.

Some of you people might think, 'who the hell are you to tell me to be courteous!! You may not even be courteous your own self!'

At least I have the courtesy to tell you this! Hahahahahhahah!

Live well people

Stay tuned
Shian

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