Share my mess no. 4: Of Changing the world!

"You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty."

"The difference between what we do and what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world's problem."

"If I had no sense of humor, I would long ago have committed suicide."

Mahatma Gandhi (1869-1948), instrumental in India independence.

Tips from Mahatma Gandhi on the fundamentals for changing the world.

1. Change yourself.

"You must be the change you want to see in the world."

"As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world- that is the myth of the atomic age- as in being able to remake ourselves."

2. You are in control.

"Nobody can hurt me without my permission."

3. Forgive and let it go.

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."
"An eye for eye only ends up making the whole world blind."


4. Without action you aren't going anywhere.
"An ounce of practice is worth more than tons of preaching."


5. Take care of this moment.
"I do not want to foresee the future, I am concerned with taking care of the present. God has given me no control over the moment following."


6. Everyone is human.
"I claim to be a simple individual liable to err like any other fellow mortal. I own, however, that I have humility enough to confess my errors and to retrace my steps."
" It is unwise to be too sure of one's own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest might err."


7. Persist.
"First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win."


8. See the good in people and help them.
"I look only to the good qualities of men. Not being faultless myself, I won't presume to probe into the faults of others."
"Man becomes great exactly in the degree in which he works for the welfare of his fellow-men."


9. Be congruent, be authentic, be your true self.
"Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony."
"Always aim at complete harmony of thought and word and deed. Always aim at purifying your thoughts and everything will be well."


10. Continue to grow and evolve.
"Constant development is the law of life, and a man who always tries to maintain his dogmas in order to appear consistent drives himself into a false position."


People, If you can't change the world, you can always change your own world. Change for the good ya! We all can do it!

These tips is first read at http://paulocoelhoblog.com/2011/08/31/gandhi/
Full article of the Top 10 fundamentals for changing the world at http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2008/05/09/gandhis-top-10-fundamentals-for-changing-the-world/

Live well people

Stay tuned
Shian

Happy Independence Raya Day Malaysia

Is been a busy two weeks for me! hahahhahah! but I am BACK!!
How is this as a kick start again! At the independence day of my beloved country, Malaysia and Hari Raya for all Muslim. Shouting...

MERDEKA! MERDEKA! MERDEKA! and
Selamat Hari Raya!


Or perhaps lets just combined them both and become...

SELAMAT MERDEKARAYA! 


How cool is that!

Ok people, how well do you know independence day?

A day when Tunku came out and shout MERDEKA for seven times and liberate us from the colonial clutches of British? The day where we remove the Union Jack From the flag pole? The day That we proudly call our self a countrymen of our own country? The day true freedom are gained?

What is Independence meant for you?

Dictionary.com defines Independence as:
1. The state or quality of being independent.
2. Freedom from the control, influence, support, aid, or the like of others.

In My humble opinion, Independence means being together.
You might think that how can two contradicting terms can be the same? We human use to think earth is flat! So shut up! hahahhahahahah!

Independence, brings us together, as Malaysian. Independence Day, to celebrate the togetherness that brought us freedom. Independence, to be together at par with fellow independent state. Don't tell me independence is not being together! Togetherness is the essence of independence.

Independence leave the door open for us to walk the path of infinite wonders. How far and how well we walk that path depends on every action of each countrymen do. Is not that you can only contribute to the country but joining the army or the police force or even join politics. We as every countrymen contribute to the country in our own way. A mother feed a child, a child who may in the future become the engineer that build the fastest moving train in Malaysia. A teen paying government tax when he eat KFC as lunch which would go to the foster home that help homeless children (provided that the money is well handled). A person who refuse to throw rubbish on the beach to help keep Malaysia clean. The family man who choose to walk and use public transport to keep Malaysia air cleaner of green house gases. The old wood sculptor who keep perfecting his work to preserve the traditional Malaysian culture. The poet who write to enhance the mind of fellow Malaysian. A fresh graduated executive working in a food company to both feed their fellow Malaysian and improve the industry in Malaysia. Everyday is independence day when everyday, we are in the mind to improve the nation. One person at a time.

There is so many ways you can do to contribute to the well being of your country. Is not about how you sacrificed for your country, but how well you live for your nation. Together collectively, we are strong, and we can make changes for good! Do not say I am wrong, we got it right on the day of 31st August 1957.

What I think about Hari Raya then? I think the video (by DiGi, which I think did a fantastic job) below explained it well. A festive to celebrate forgiveness.

That is all from me people.

Selamat MerdekaRaya!

Enjoy to the max of your holidays and enjoy being together.

Live well people

Stay tuned
Shian

Share my mess no. 3: Of Courtesy

Do you sometimes stick yourself in someone bubbled bubble gum under the seat?
Do you sometimes find people parked their car in front of your house?
Do you sometimes find yourself stepping on some stranger spit? (ewwwwwwww)
Do you sometimes see rubbish being thrown at a beautiful beach?

You are frustrated, angry and sometimes even mad of these things! where this could be solved with just one word! Money!.......waittttttt, just kidding! hahahahha! the WORD is

Courtesy


although sometimes money do work too, when you give some money too them and tell them not to do it again....naaaahhhhhh, that won't work! hahahahah!

Courtesy! is somehow out of the window in society nowadays! or perhaps 'in the window' cause we people nowadays are always outside! hahahahh! I am not implying that people always stayed in house are courteous. You people should go out more! breathe in the fresh air, play and have fun! You know outside.....(i tend to get so easily carries away.).

Ok, C-O-U-R-T-E-S-Y!

I think it would be more effective if I told you they benefits of being courteous right. Lets divide them in gender:


For Guys:
1. You get GIRLS!
2. You get more GIRLS!
3. GIRLS GIRLS GIRLS!


For Girls:
1. You get GUYS!
2. Good GUYS! Hunky GUYS!
3. GUYS GUYS GUYS!


note: Benefits of being courteous may differ from person to person. please do not blame the author if result comes out differently from what you have expected. Please do not sue the author. XDXD




The real benefits of being courtesy, is you be a better human! Those who still wondering how to be a better person, here is your answer smack straight to your face! hahahah! Start being COURTEOUS!! A girl always like a guy who opens door for her, take her chair out when you go for dinner, hand her your jacket when she is cold and etc. That was being gentleman! courtesy might involved a little bit of being gentleman, but it applies not only to your partner, but to everybody in this whole wide world! No matter if he/she is blood related to you, your ok-not ok friends or someone you will never know! It involving you being courteous to... EVERYONE!! And yessss include the nagging lady boss you cursed every now and then. XDXD

Courtesy involve not doing things which you like the other person not to do to you! got the drift?? no?? ok ok. You do not like rubbish being thrown to your house right? Do not damn throw rubbish on the street like it was your own backyard or something! got the drift?? no?? ok ok. You do not like people double park your car right? Don't do it to others! Unless you got a emergency or you have the COURTESY to left a contact for people to call you if they want to move their car... you might need to consider the risk that their phone are out of credit...hahahahhah.

Courtesy involve being polite. Being polite to everyone! Manners is for dealing to people older than you. Courtesy is for EVERYONE!! From baby of 3 months to a person who are 80 years old (age not mention all included, the rite scale should be 0-130 perhaps). Courtesy applies to all! Being polite take you to places you never imagined (good places of cause).

Courtesy is the basic thing being a human. Society is about living together. Unless you bought up the whole city just for yourself. Have fun being alone then! Faced it! We lived together, and courtesy is the most gluey adhesive that will make us live happily together. You would really live happier when everybody is courteous.

Courtesy is not charity. Charity is something you give and higher chances that you would not get back (definition from shiandictionary, 2011). Courtesy is something you definitely get something back, in all types of shape and feelings possibles. Trust me on this.

Courtesy is not respect. Respect is of choice. you choose to respect or not respect a particular or a group of human being/s. Respect can be earned or lost. You can do action to gain respect or lose respect. Courtesy is different. Courtesy is of need. You just need to do it! As a person, as a member of the society.

Courtesy is about, think-of-others-when-you-do-something-when-the-effects-of-your-action-do-not-only-affecting-you. And believe me, a single thing we do nowadays affects peoples in way you could not even imagining! hahahahahahah!

So people, Just be courteous to have courtesy please.

Some of you people might think, 'who the hell are you to tell me to be courteous!! You may not even be courteous your own self!'

At least I have the courtesy to tell you this! Hahahahahhahah!

Live well people

Stay tuned
Shian

Share my mess no. 2: Of ridiculous words you don't know!

Here is some few words you do not even know they existed! hahahahh!

Flibbertigibbet- a chattering or flighty, light-headed person.

Ninnyhammer- a fool or simpleton; ninny.

Interrobang- a printed punctuation mark, available only in some typefaces, designed to combine the question mark (?) and the exclamation point (!), indicating a mixture of query and interjection, as after a rhetorical question.

Zedonk- the offspring of a zebra and a donkey. XDXDXD

Ort- a scrap or morsel of food left at a meal.


Now as all good teacher will ask you to do.

Good teacher: 'Now you have learned these words. Do a sentence with them.'
Shian: 'OKKKKKKKKK teacher!'

'Is that fibbertigibbet ninnyhammer zedonk not cleaning up his orts on the table (interrobanginterrobanginterrobanginterrobanginterrobanginterrobanginterrobanginterrobang)'

Good teacher: 'Good one Shian!'
Shian: 'hahahahha, thanks teacher.....Now teacher, can you please clean your table? Pn Haliza (fictional headmistress) call us to keep clean.'

XDXDXD

Now people, as a good student, do your own funny sentence at the comment section below. Your cooperation to make everybody laugh is immensely appreciated!! Help Help ya!! XDXD


interrobanginterrobanginterrobanginterrobanginterrobanginterrobanginterrobanginterrobang

For 7 more words like this and cool pronounce sound, check out  http://flashcards.dictionary.com/deckprofile/view/68867/twelve-absolutely-ridiculous-words-flashcards?__utma=1.1786388798.1313515195.1313594578.1313670170.3&__utmb=1.3.9.1313670183496&__utmc=1&__utmx=-&__utmz=1.1313670170.3.3.utmcsr=thesaurus.com|utmccn=(referral)|utmcmd=referral|utmcct=/&__utmv=-&__utmk=265484431

Live well people!

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Shian

My Student Card Expires!

No more Cheap tickets on movies,
No more Student price on eating,
No more filling forms saying you are a student,
No more living on loans.

Officially, My Student card expires. After 20 years of study.

My varsity 4 years had been one of the most beautiful times of my life!!

1. I have the longest hair in my life (it may be short for some people).

When I looked back! Im shock!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! XDXD

I feel like slapping myself!!!!! XDXD

2. I have performed and choreograph my dance in many stages! small or big!

Dance, is my passion. Performing, is my rejuvenation!  I still remember my spot to practice my dance, at a platform at stadium overlooking Mt. Kinabalu, tiled up floor, always looking at the clear blue sky, and some occasional checking chicks out session on the jogging tracks below and of cause free water! Dancing had brings so many colours to my varsity life. They have bring in so many peoples which became friends! together performing, together laugh and most of all, have fun together! I would never stop dancing!

Love you people!!

We guysss rulezzzz!!!

3. I have joined a lot of dance competition! and won some!

Who said you are too busy with study and could not enter some cool competition! I did! although I lost most of it (got win a few la, give face ok!), I HAVE FUN!!!!!

We got out just after the first round! but we had FUNNNNN!!!

4. I have been the CRAZIEST guy in the whole class! (correct me if I am wrong... I think I am right! XDXD)

My class routine: Go find the most spacious seats (have a lot of space around the seats, not that I have a big ass! XDXD), sit down, take out my MP3, blast the songs, put on the table a piece of paper and pen (just for show), occasionally listen to lectures or eating when i am hungry, fall asleep, class ends and go back! Can you imagine i am the class rep for a few times??? I do not know what going through my coursemate mind selecting me! XDXD

5. I have lead many teams! In studies and non-studies activities!

You might say. 'He? Leads???? bullshit!'. leading was cooooooool ok!!! hahahahhahaha! And I did enjoy the occasional feeling of having power, but you gonna work harder you know! hahahahahha! most importantly! I had funnnnnnnn doing it!! XDXD

6. I have joined many programs!!!! (is essentials!)

Pesta here and there!! This program and that program!! It is all for self improvement!......... nahhhhhh! My aim is just to go and know more people! I enjoy doing it! and this is the best place to really do it ya!!! and again! I HAD FUNNNN!!!

Program Unit for PAP year 2008!!! we rulezz people!!

7. I served my school well!!!

Did my thing for the student body! Played hard throughout it's terms! been to several countries (just two) with it! Know even more friends with it! Make the school proud with it! I done my thing here in my beloved school of food science and nutrition!! although I suck in sciences!! hahahhahahahah!!

SSMP student body 2009/2010!! sorry for the ugly post guys!! hahahah!

Jen, Deb and Me!! student body dragon head!

The Indon friend and us!! miss you people!!

Double capture for this competition!!!

A free trip indeed!!! but need to read book one lehhhh! XDXD they read, I sleep all the time!!! sorry guys!!

8. I did Sports too!!!

Yeahhhhhhh! I did active in sports!!! both basketball and football (???? football???). hahhahahahah! football hell yeah! matter of fact! I am the top scorer for my school that year!! I scored 2 own GOAL that time for my school!! pretty damn good ehhhhh!!!! XDXD

SSMP basketball team 2011!! we rocks!!

9. I live on my own!!! (with PTPTN and FAMA foundation la) and met wonderful housemate!

House with people, only then is a home.

Crazyyyyy housemates!!!!!!

Is when you eat and pose crazily! U LIVEEEEE!!! hahahhaha!

Buddy we rulezzzz!!

10. I have traveled!!!!!!!!!

Many many many many wonderful place at Sabah!! and will travel more in this beloved state in time to come! :)

Life saver suit SUCK!!!

11. I finally know what I wanted to do with my life! (although is was a bit late, but start now or never!!)

12. Most important of all. I know alot alot alot of great FRIENDS!!!

Friends is like your oxygen! you can't live without them! I can't live without mine! They are my true convocation scroll, which I would carry through life. :)

You know who you are!!! If I need to really post them photos out....... this post might be too long!!

WAIT!
.....You don't see anything bout study rite?? (Is not appropriate to post my sleeping pictures out! XDXD)
Well people, everybody studies at university! That is what you need to do! Your obligation! your responsibility! To infinity and beyond! Great powers come great responsibility! and....... I go too far.....
hahhahahahahah! The end game is, as a student, you study! nuff said! nothing interesting to said more!

But what you do besides that, defined your varsity life. I did enjoyed mine without REGRETS! and with A HELLLLLL LOADSSSS OF FUNNNNNNN!!!

For those still at varsity, GO OUT!! HAVE FUN!! join something you never join before! do something crazy! bake muffin for crying out loud (you think is funny! I did that!)! Do what you wanna do! life are meant to be enjoy! and varsity life, is the best time to do that!! GOOOOOOOOOO!!!

For those student card expired the same time like me!!! your life is ahead of you! start living the way you want to live! is you life anyway!! enjoyyyy every step of the way!!! yayyyyy!!

Officially, again, my student card expires!!
Student life, what you gave me, is all in me!

Live well people!

Stay tuned
Shian
Happy and contemplated.